What is the process?

The mediation process itself is a simple one.

I meet initially with both/all parties individually for 1-2 hours to listen to their view of the situation. I explain what mediation is, my role as a mediator and what a joint meeting entails should they wish to proceed.

Should both parties agree to a joint meeting this will be arranged at a mutually convenient time at a neutral venue.  This meeting can last for up to 3 hours and will be facilitated by myself.

The main points to know about the joint meeting are that:

• ground rules include: not interrupting, no abusive language or behaviour, anyone can call a break at any time
• each party gets an opportunity to speak, uninterrupted, and be heard
• key issues for discussion are decided by the parties
• it is totally confidential  (unless exceptional circumstances arise) 
• outcomes are decided by the parties
• all agreements made are made in good faith and are not legally binding

My role as a mediator is to facilitate, support and guide the parties toward their own resolution through the use of open communication. 

I pride myself on providing an environment in which all parties feel safe enough to communicate honestly, in a way which enables them to move towards a resolution.